Losing. Lost.

So have you ever done something that had ruined something that was seemingly so perfect? Have you worn the guilt like a boulder on your shoulders? It’s like you want to talk about it and possibly fix it but things have been okay since the incident and you don’t want to bring up issues that happened maybe months ago? It may even seem like it shouldn’t be a big deal, but to someone that thing hurt them. Then because of that thing things just aren’t how they used to be. Sometimes you get so close to it being good again but then next thing you know it’s like nothing is there. All you want is for it to be good again but you don’t know what to do. Maybe all this time since the incident you’ve been pretending and so now it can’t be fixed even if you tried. Like in the back of their mind they have made up their mind that this is all you are ever going to be and you no longer mean as much to them as you did. Maybe you should stop waiting around for something to happen when it’s not and make the move to have the talk. Maybe it could end up good and make the relationship stronger. Sometimes trust can be diminished but it is not totally lost, therefore you can gain it back. Trust, is probably the biggest issue after an incident happens. Then maybe set a time period of when you expect things to be getting better and if they are not at least starting to be better then you know to end it and move on. That’s just how it is, and I suppose how it should be either way. This could go for any relationship: a friend, boyfriend, girlfriend, mother, father, daughter, son, sister, brother, or any other person you may come into contact with and have some kind of relationship with them.